It’s not anyone’s fault for that special someone who is the boss of me. They didn’t’ meant to be the boss of me. But they are. I don’t have to comply. But if I don’t, I will be asked to leave. That’s fair. I’ve made an agreement with this boss, his organization. I could have my own organization, be my own boss. But if I had ever hired someone, it would be the same thing but in reverse. Would that be any better?
In some way yes. But would they be as understanding of me as the boss? Would they make an effort to understand the other side?