I think the cruelest thing that I can do to my spouse is to let them forget their winter cap. I can see it on the couch while he goes around grabbing things, in a hurry, as usual, as he heads out the door, into the clear but cold New York day.
Why can’t I just pick up the item, hand it to them, expect a thank you and be done with it? I think its the constant threat of Alzheimers. Spouses everywhere, are spouting jokes about this disease, in the hopes of that this will warding it away.

Shame on them.

Even more shame on me. I should be nicer, especially if it turns they will end up with it.
I’d want someone to remind me to take my cap before I head out into this cold world.